More Than Just Letters

If you told me a few years ago that I’d one day be the president of my sorority, I probably would’ve laughed. Not because I didn’t love the idea, but because I didn’t fully see myself as a “leader.” I always cared deeply about the people around me. I loved being involved, being a team player, and bringing people together. But I wasn’t sure I had the voice or confidence to take on such a big role.

Fast forward to now, and serving as president of my chapter has been one of the most transformative experiences of my college life.

Leading a group of strong, brilliant, diverse women isn't just about planning events or running meetings. It’s about listening, supporting, mediating, organizing, and showing up even on the hard days. It’s learning to speak clearly and confidently, even when you’re nervous. It’s standing your ground when needed, while also staying open to other perspectives. It’s being a friend, a role model, and a decision-maker all at once. And trust me, there’s no manual for that.

When I first stepped into this position, I felt the pressure instantly. I didn’t want to let anyone down. I wanted to be respected, but also approachable. I wanted to lead diligently. What I didn’t realize at the time was that the best way to lead wasn’t to change who I was or to “act” like a leader. It was to lean into the kind of leader I already had inside me.

I learned that empathy is a strength, not a weakness. That asking for help doesn’t make you unqualified—it makes you wise. That communication is everything, especially when tensions are high or decisions are tough. Most importantly, showing people you care goes a lot further than trying to appear perfect.

Of course, there are challenging moments. Late-night calls, navigating group dynamics, and having to make difficult decisions that didn’t always make everyone happy. But even in those moments, I saw how much I was growing—not just as a leader, but as a person. I became more self-assured, more thoughtful, and more willing to step into spaces I once would’ve backed away from.

I also gained a deeper appreciation for the power of sisterhood. Being surrounded by a group of women who support each other, celebrate each other, and hold each other accountable is something truly special. It’s easy to overlook how rare that kind of environment is, but I’ve seen firsthand how life-changing it can be. Watching new members step into their own confidence—the way I once had to—has been one of the most fulfilling parts of the job.

Being sorority president isn’t just a title, it’s a turning point. It reminded me that leadership doesn’t look the same for everyone, and that’s the beauty of it. Some leaders are bold and outspoken. Some lead by example. Some lead through kindness and consistency. I learned that I could be all of those things—in my own way, with my own voice.

And that voice? I’m proud of it now. It’s strong, but it listens. It’s passionate, but grounded. It’s still growing and learning, but it’s mine.

As I look toward whatever comes next—whether that’s in my career, future leadership roles, or personal life—I’ll carry this chapter with me forever. Being president didn’t just teach me how to lead a sorority—it taught me how to lead myself.